A Dime A Dozen

Aside from the "good time" it seems to be overly glorified. I recommend reading Manology by Rev Run (DMC) and Tyrese Gibson, as well as How to Get Out Of Your Own Way by Tyrese Gibson. Both speak on these issues. Sometimes a guy just likes to have sex, sometimes a guy has no commitment skills. sometimes woman (A) won't do this and woman (B) won't do that so a guy has to take from both cookie jars to feel satisfied. In a relationship, sometimes the significant other is the perfect lover but bad at making love, so the guy has to find other cookie jars. Some guys are just cookie monsters and are never satisfied not even with 100 assorted cookies. Always remember that the same can apply to the other gender with majority of what we post here. (Harsh truth) Good books though.

You have guy (A) on the block. His woman is a good 7.5 or an 8 in the beauty department. She's headed for success, loyal, cool, and a bunch of other good qualities. He's been with her for 4 years now. They are destined to be a successful couple/have a successful relationship.

Then you have guy (B) on the block. He is seen with a different woman every2 or 3 months. Sometimes more than one woman per month. Some get the rating of threes  and fours and some even get eights and nines. Their job status and qualities vary accordingly. The way it's looking is that he has no commitment skills, is lacking something somewhere and he may even be a bad father if he got one of these random woman pregnant because he never loved them in the first place. Somehow.... in the eyes of everyone else on the block, this guy is the man! He's so cool. They want to be just like him.  But in all reality there is nothing cool about him, the women he pulls, and everything cool about the other guy. (At least after you fully think about it that is).