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Post by awakewhileusleep on Aug 29, 2015 0:15:00 GMT -8
there was a moment in time when sex was just two people being intimate, freaky, sensual, loving, etc.. but now more and more people have come into the age of "50 shades of gray" where pain is added to the equation. does anyone feel like sex is getting to barbaric and needs to make a u-turn or is all sex regular sex?
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thickyfitt01
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Post by thickyfitt01 on Aug 29, 2015 7:23:34 GMT -8
I don't think there has ever been a point in time where sex was "regular". There were points in time where " vanilla " sex (no crazy positions, no whips, no chains, nothing out of the ordinary) was the only sex that people were told was right and OK to have. But even then, I'm sure people had sex that wasn't vanilla. BDSM has been around a long time, but I think it's getting talked about a lot because it's becoming less of a taboo. I'm not into getting my ass beat like I stole something during sex, but if that's what two consenting adults want to do behind closed doors, who am I to judge? I feel like regular sex is what ever sex you like to have. As long as it's not forced, with a minor, with an animal, or with an incoherent person, it's normal and regular.
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Post by konsciousMind on Sept 16, 2015 17:44:33 GMT -8
Sex to me seen as still something to not talk about in a way where we appreciate the body of seland opposite sex. Played up is the submissice and dominant role instead of a partnership. I am not against a little hot wax here and some gentle hair pulling there but I do believe that there is a line to it all, as in anything. Respect still needs to be present in the act
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Post by sistaallie on Oct 1, 2015 10:55:43 GMT -8
I agree with thickyfitt01. BDSM is not something new, it's just something that is becoming less taboo to discuss. We are all individuals, we all have individual thoughts, fantasies, sexual urges, feelings, definitions of love, and definition of what "normal" is. BDSM comes in many, many forms, and there are as many different disciplines, thoughts and practices as there are those that have these desires. BDSM can be as simple or as imaginative as a consenting individual or couple wants to make it, from an erotic spanking or tying your partner to the bedposts, giving or accepting verbal commands, through to a complex and intense full on scene.
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