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Post by DevilsAdvocate on Aug 28, 2015 19:37:39 GMT -8
i have been in situations where i have been the relief for females in bad relationships, i always knew my role and played the game by their rules. the thing is, 85% percent of the time the same female who made the rules "not to catch feelings" ended up breaking their own rule. my question is, if they are so unhappy am i wrong for helping them to leave their current circumstance? keep in mind i never go around just looking for ladies that are having issues with their men and i have never broke up a "happy home" but i have ended a few troubled ones. i have never continued an affair beyond the demise of their relationship either, am i the bad guy for helping a female to gain strength enough to leave someone they no longer love? the majority of the females that i still have contact with have moved on to better relationships.
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Post by jayson on Sept 10, 2015 13:31:05 GMT -8
You can help them without having sex with them. If you really want to be the help they need, you shouldn't even want to sleep with them because sex complicates things. Help her out of the relationship and once she is single, if you want to have sex with her, it's fair game.
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Post by Just a bird on Jul 27, 2016 13:35:42 GMT -8
Yea I felt the same been in similar circumstances it's hard for me to feel like I wasn't any benefit because of the sex and most of the relationships I tried to keep intact. No answers for u just relating to u.
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