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Post by awakewhileusleep on Sept 14, 2015 7:22:23 GMT -8
what does it mean when these words are said..?
"...i need to be with a man that can handle me"
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Post by ladytee on Sept 14, 2015 21:04:03 GMT -8
For me, a man that can handle me, is a man that is able to stick by me when I am an emotionally going through it. He doesnt disregard me because he feels I am being too sensitive, instead he takes the time out to listen and understand. I would want him to be able to handle the fact that I don't need him to fix me, just support me while I figure it out myself. When I need that solitary time to work on myself,which happens every now and then, he doesn't look elsewhere for attention. And I am very physical so he should be pleased by my touch and desire to be close to him.
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thickyfitt01
Female
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Relationship: Single Not Looking
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Post by thickyfitt01 on Sept 15, 2015 1:12:41 GMT -8
I think for me, this means that I don't want a pushover, but he should be sensitive to my feelings, wants and needs like ladytee mentioned. If you can't take the lead, consult/discuss with me, and make the best decision for the both of us in the end then I don't want you. Basically, when I say I need someone that can handle me and saying I need someone I can submit to. #whereheattho
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Post by dubse7en on Sept 15, 2015 4:40:40 GMT -8
I agree with what's been stated. I desire to be submissive to my man. However, I must be comfortable in my submission. I need to be able to trust that my man is connected with me and understands me and my many layers.
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Post by justpeachy on Sept 15, 2015 17:59:53 GMT -8
When I hear this term, to me it means a man that can give as well as take the heat in a relationship. Someone that is emotionally strong enough & not in intimidated by a strong personality. That backbone & strength that knows just when to push, pull or be still.
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Post by empressyemaya on Oct 10, 2015 10:12:36 GMT -8
Reading this thread, its good to know other women feel exactly the way I feel. For me it means a man that works toward having a great relationship as much as I do and doesn't walk away without first seeking to communicate and understand.
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Post by destinee1me on Nov 1, 2015 12:33:58 GMT -8
It means nothing really. ....lol... but it's sometimes a way I expressed dealing with men that were not deserving. I was good to them but they were not to me.
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