You, Me & Her what we gonna do baby...

Often the Side Chick is blamed for this interruption in a marriage/relationship..but let's look at where marriage derived from and it's effects on our culture as we know it today. Even in the bible men like Jacob aka Isreal, King David & King Solomon has multiple wives in order to reproduce. The wives and concubines had to get along at some point...they were all raising each other's children and hoping that their son would be the next king or inherit all of their fathers possessions. In today's society the "sidechick" is looked down upon....but let's examine why she is even present in the first place. As the woman in the relationship...can one honestly say they gave 100% to the relationship; mentally, spiritually & physically??? Something to think about...especially if your guy continues to step out on the relationship....and with the same woman....maybe just maybe she's providing more than just sex as we often assume.