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Post by Nei on Aug 24, 2015 15:48:01 GMT -8
I agree with Eddii. A few phone conversations will help me gain a better understanding of who you are, where you are, and where you're going. We can get the awkward/pesky questions out of the way in the beginning, that way if it DOES lead to a date we will have built a level of comfort so we can focus more on the fun than wondering what to or what not to do to turn this outing into a disaster.
If nothing comes from the phone calls, even better. We saved ourselves from having a horrible time and can always change the contact info from *name* to *do not answer*
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Post by bellabluee on Oct 18, 2015 12:40:41 GMT -8
I quite like the concept. With technology, there is always that safety net where we can uninhibitedly express ourselves, or even sometimes put on a show. Then when we meet and find out what we thought was reality is actually a farce,that person already has direct, personal, possibly unwanted contact to you. Setting a date allows you to meet and go through the process of letting awkwardness blossom into something beautiful. If nothing materialises from it, there has not been much time and energy wasted, and you can walk away without being compromised. I like it.
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Post by melaninmermaid on Nov 8, 2015 12:03:47 GMT -8
It's weird, in a Way I think that we need to take the time and get to know they person before you first meet. But so often we hide behind technology. So I say yes!! go out there meet someone, talk to them. Enjoy each other's company.
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Post by mskenya on Nov 21, 2015 7:25:37 GMT -8
100% agree. I remember when you exchanged numbers but would only talk if you were at home, which would be too long to wait, so you automatically set a date. There was an urgency to not waste time. Man I miss the old days with my old azz lol
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