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Post by Fortune500 on Nov 4, 2015 16:59:00 GMT -8
Is it wrong for me to just want sex? People come into relationships for many reasons. Lately I just want the sex. I love black women but I must know why black women hate men that just want sex? Do you black women realize how much happier you could have been just giving your ex sex instead of your heart?
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Post by lexxrey on Nov 4, 2015 17:55:24 GMT -8
Is it wrong for me to just want sex? People come into relationships for many reasons. Lately I just want the sex. I love black women but I must know why black women hate men that just want sex? Do you black women realize how much happier you could have been just giving your ex sex instead of your heart? The only issue I could pinpoint in what you're saying is the generalization that "black women hate men that just want sex". I think there could be potential problems trying to pursue a relationship with a man who only wanted sex but mind you there are other components in which the arrangement could be unfavorable to the woman, such as: having her feelings manipulated for sex, or feeling used or unsatisfied with what she is expecting from the relationship. With that being said, I believe if you have an upfront arrangement and let it be known that's what you're looking for I think you're not going to get so much negative feedback. Two consenting adults in an arrangement for sex isn't horrible in itself. I imagine it would be the associated feelings such as deception and dishonesty that would create the issue. If that's what you want, no judgment as long as you're being 100% honest in the way you're going about it and both involved are on the same page. Your last question I would also consider an assumption unless you elaborated. I hope my perspective helped.  |
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thickyfitt01
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Post by thickyfitt01 on Nov 7, 2015 6:20:48 GMT -8
First off, wow. Now that's out the way, I can share my perspective.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with just wanting sex. The problem comes in when you manipulate a person into giving you sex. You would be surprised how many women would actually agree to a no strings attached arrangement if you were up front with them. But its like some men like selling women dreams in order to get want they want. Deceiving and manipulating a woman into giving herself away is an accomplishment to some men. Lol its too many hook up sites out here for all that foolishness.
Just be up front. It might not always work, because everybody isn't interested in just sex and you can't be mad at a woman for not handing it over to you on a platter (some men do feel entitled to sex from any woman they are interested in and will throw a hissy fit if they don't get the draws). Just say OK and move on. Anyway, I hope everything works out for you.
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Post by melaninmermaid on Nov 8, 2015 21:26:17 GMT -8
I agree with thickyfitt01 as long as you are honest and you both are in it for the same reasons go for it!! Enjoy it.. practice safe sex and be good to one other.. Communicate and respect each other
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