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Post by queennana on Dec 15, 2015 11:33:35 GMT -8
I need some advice...
What is it that i am doing that all the men i encounter they only want to "chill"...
Do not get me wrong sometimes being alone is ideal...
But i want to be courted
What signal says chill only in my personality
What about me do they not take seriously
What am i doing or saying..
What am i wearing or not doing...
Or is there something wrong with me...
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Post by akanundrum on Dec 15, 2015 13:08:56 GMT -8
I need some advice...
What is it that i am doing that all the men i incounter they only want to "chill"...
Do not get me wrong sometimes being alone is ideal...
But i want to be courted
What signal says chill only in my personality
What about me do they not take seriously
What am i doing or saying..
What am i wearing or not doing...
Or is there something wrong with me...
Without knowing you I can comfortably say it's not "YOU" because MAAANY young women experiencing the same thing. Let's face it, #NetFlixAndChill is about one step away from being added to Webster's dictionary. This generation has been plagued by two schools of thought; women wanted to be treated like equals - which confused the hell out of some men and even some women and because sex is so plentiful, men aren't having to do much to get it; just show up. It's basically a buyers market. Fortunately it seems tides are turning a bit as men are growing bored and seeking new challenges and natural/real women again. Hang in there. Maintain your standards. |
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Post by Nwasha and Montsho on Dec 15, 2015 14:19:12 GMT -8
There's nothing wrong with you sis!
You're probably sending out the 'I just want to chill vibe'. Most times this happens to us women when we don't admit what we want (to ourselves or the men we meet). You gotta be clear that you want something 'else'. I would ask, "What is it that you want the men to do rather than chill?" With clarity you can easily weed out who's right for you and who isn't. Some dude is never gonna 'figure out' that he likes you. Men typically know if they're attracted to you or not early. We women are the ones who say, "you know, I never looked at him like that and then... or I just realized he was the one after..." lol What are you looking for? is a question you have to ask yourself and say the answer outloud... shout it out, write it down, etc
You have to position yourself to be courted. Do the things that have you come alive as a woman. What do you really love? What are you about? Do those things and you'll be positioning yourself as a queen.
You meet your soulmate on your soul path.
You'll attract men/kings who will appreciate the true you and want to build/do more than chill... ♡♡♡
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Post by queennana on Dec 15, 2015 14:54:47 GMT -8
I want to thank you both sooo much and i will definitely think about what i truly want
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