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Post by lyrikaltygur on Jan 23, 2016 20:40:40 GMT -8
I have found that today it's more difficult for people to express how they feel about one another. Personally I'm very open yet find myself not letting a certain woman know how I feel about her. My reason is because I know I'm focused on my goals and don't want to complicate a great friendship. What would you do if you weren't actually ready to take that step? Let them know or wait it out?
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ShyaDee
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Post by ShyaDee on Jan 23, 2016 23:54:44 GMT -8
If you arent ready to take that step. Continue to be a great friend and focus on your goals. Most people, i think anyways, can usually pick up on when someone is attracted to them. If she's a great friend then she'll be around. Telling her how you feel would def be ideal if you were ready. If you knew how she felt about you then thatd also benefit you in knowing whether or not she'd be willing to wait for you to get to that point. Then again you should try gauging that in conversation with her if you already haven't done so. Then go from there.
Well wishes in whatever decision you make
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Post by empressct on Jan 24, 2016 14:21:52 GMT -8
One can focus on their goals and have amazing friendships. Its ok to let someone know you're digging them or you're not. I know I'd respect it. Too many people take someone telling them they "like" them as a promise to a monogamous relationship they are working towards. A lot of people live in their heads. Also, I find that in todays world, communication is not effective especially revolving around social media.
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Post by empressct on Jan 24, 2016 14:22:27 GMT -8
So in short, tell them!
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