Post by ambitiouskitten on Jun 26, 2016 18:47:21 GMT -8
Hey fam,
I'm really curious to know some of your thoughts on the matter.. I recently started dating this guy. He's great. We have a ton in common.. we agree on marraige and family structure and home life, we're both 'conscious' or enlightened and are continuing and open to growth.. all the things that are most important to me, really.. and there are differences.
There's a 9 yr age difference (I'll b 24 next month) and he has an 8yr old son while I dont have children.. mainly.
I've gone out with guys before who may have had children or even babies on the way but I never saw anything more with those guys. Them having children being a reason. But those were always younger children, babies even. Never a whole man-child..
I'm just starting to get a little.. idk.. jealous? Intimidated? He now has his son for the summer.. so our time will be limited. And we havent done the 'formal' meeting of the boy... and am I ready to b someone's step parent or something? He does want to be married, as do I. We're taking it slow but I may be panicking a little.
So what are you guys' take on it? Should I just calm down and continue to take it slow ( which he's helping me learn to do 🙄 )? Or wheeeet?
I'm really curious to know some of your thoughts on the matter.. I recently started dating this guy. He's great. We have a ton in common.. we agree on marraige and family structure and home life, we're both 'conscious' or enlightened and are continuing and open to growth.. all the things that are most important to me, really.. and there are differences.
There's a 9 yr age difference (I'll b 24 next month) and he has an 8yr old son while I dont have children.. mainly.
I've gone out with guys before who may have had children or even babies on the way but I never saw anything more with those guys. Them having children being a reason. But those were always younger children, babies even. Never a whole man-child..
I'm just starting to get a little.. idk.. jealous? Intimidated? He now has his son for the summer.. so our time will be limited. And we havent done the 'formal' meeting of the boy... and am I ready to b someone's step parent or something? He does want to be married, as do I. We're taking it slow but I may be panicking a little.
So what are you guys' take on it? Should I just calm down and continue to take it slow ( which he's helping me learn to do 🙄 )? Or wheeeet?