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Post by awakewhileusleep on Aug 22, 2015 3:02:05 GMT -8
if your s/o is having issues with their baby's mother/father constantly being disrespectful towards them, do you get involved or do you let them handle it?
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Post by Nei on Aug 24, 2015 15:33:21 GMT -8
Hmmm. Good question. As much as I would LOVE to get involved, this isn't my issue, so for me to become directly involved I would be overstepping my bounds, disrespecting him, and somewhat emasculating him as well. My role in this situation would be to support him, encourage him, and offer suggestions on ways we could possible get over the problem. And if that doesn't work, I'll just put in a call to my homegirls around the way have have them take care of that. lol (i'm kidding  ) |
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Post by awakewhileusleep on Aug 25, 2015 2:07:13 GMT -8
Hmmm. Good question. As much as I would LOVE to get involved, this isn't my issue, so for me to become directly involved I would be overstepping my bounds, disrespecting him, and somewhat emasculating him as well. My role in this situation would be to support him, encourage him, and offer suggestions on ways we could possible get over the problem. And if that doesn't work, I'll just put in a call to my homegirls around the way have have them take care of that. lol (i'm kidding )  you funny, but you raised a good point!! i guess that makes sense coming from a female perspective.. but would you expect your man to jump in an argument if he felt it was getting too heated in his presence or hold his tongue?? |
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Post by Nei on Aug 25, 2015 12:31:20 GMT -8
Expect him to? No. I don't expect him to, but most men have that inate urge to protect so while he won't "join" the argument, he will most likely be on some "yo, respect my girl, you're not about to do this in front of me" type stuff.
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Post by morallady on Sept 14, 2015 17:15:52 GMT -8
The line is drawn when the issue is not resolved and begins to negatively affect the our relationship heavily. If my man is not able to rectify the situation, I'm prepared to remove myself from it and wish him the best of luck of getting that under control before he enters another relationship!
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