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Post by akanundrum on Aug 26, 2015 13:21:25 GMT -8
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Post by amirinyahya on Aug 27, 2015 8:47:45 GMT -8
Is say yes and yes. Considering societies agenda to make effeminate boys and masculine girls, this is playing right into that. To some it's just "cute" and "fashionable" but how we dress and who we identify with leaves a lasting imprint on our subconscious, especially the kids.
See any familiar signs? Like when black mamas had to make our sons weak so they wouldn't get killed in the streets? Just an observation on the climate of the times and how similar it is to back then.
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Post by UncommonCourtesy on Aug 28, 2015 21:41:45 GMT -8
This is such a touchy subject...
My son and I had family pictures taken recently and I DID stop to ask myself what image I wanted to portray to my son in the future when he looked back at these photos and our clothing attire. So with that being said, I will say the photo of the mothers and their sons portray a very feminine image of their sons in particular. I've seen the full body pictures of these two images with the heading "this is why fathers are needed in the home" and what stood out to me the MOST about these photos were the stance of the young boys. Hands on hips, legs crossed in a feminine way, and just the overall appearance was similar to that of a woman or homosexual man who identifies himself as a Queen.
In retrospect, the photo of the white girl and her father looks masculine to me, and the image reminds me of a father and son photo. So pretty much i'd say YES this particular photo is the same as the black mothers and their sons.
The photo of the black father and daughter however is different from the other three in my opinion. In that photo it is obvious that the father is dressed in a masculine fashion and the daughter is dressed in a very girly/ feminine fashion. Although they ARE wearing matching jackets, I think what sets this apart are the details in accessories.
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Post by awakewhileusleep on Aug 28, 2015 23:49:12 GMT -8
its all gonna lead to identity confusion in the long run.. cross dressing, transexual operations etc.. i can not judge someone who is an adult and lives their life like that right now, but planting seeds like this in the youth is a super bad idea in my book! apologies to anyone i may have offended with my comment, but this subject strikes really close to home
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Post by justpeachy on Aug 29, 2015 15:05:39 GMT -8
While we may want our mini-me's to look like us the trick is to assimilate the look without taking the child's sense of identity away. They should know that they can look similar to mom or dad but stay true to their gender.
A boy copying his mother's hand on hip stance is a no to me & not cute at all but if it's all they see & are exposed to can you blame the child? It's natural for a child to want to imitate a loved one or who they look up to, that's why they need proper exposure & learn the mannerisms of their gender vs the opposite. Now the last pic of the melanated father & daughter I think did it right because it was kept feminine with a skirt & her hair is not particularly boyish as opposed to the other girl with her almost crew cut look.
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