Post by Low Down Dirty Shame on Aug 28, 2015 19:26:56 GMT -8
This forum is for raw truth and honesty correct?
So i pose this question for all the confessed Side Chicks: How did you learn to love and trust AFTER your days of being a side chick were over? Was it difficult to believe your new significant other was being faithful/loyal to you? Did you ever have incidents that made you think about your old side chick ways, and search for those signs and clues in your new relationship? and lastly what does being a side chick and karma mean to you? Do you believe in Karma? Why or why not? Would you accept, forgive and be understanding of your significant other if you found out he had a side chick during the course of your relationship?
I will answer honestly and say it has been slightly difficult to trust although my side chick days have been over for 2+ years. The MAIN reason is because I am a firm believer in Karma. As ridiculous as that may sound, I often think "what goes around comes around" and if this is the case I would deserve every bit of hurt my significant other posed upon me if he were to have a current side chick simply because of my past. This is why I asked the questions above. So lets get raw and honest about securing love and trust after your days of being a committed side chick are over.
So i pose this question for all the confessed Side Chicks: How did you learn to love and trust AFTER your days of being a side chick were over? Was it difficult to believe your new significant other was being faithful/loyal to you? Did you ever have incidents that made you think about your old side chick ways, and search for those signs and clues in your new relationship? and lastly what does being a side chick and karma mean to you? Do you believe in Karma? Why or why not? Would you accept, forgive and be understanding of your significant other if you found out he had a side chick during the course of your relationship?
I will answer honestly and say it has been slightly difficult to trust although my side chick days have been over for 2+ years. The MAIN reason is because I am a firm believer in Karma. As ridiculous as that may sound, I often think "what goes around comes around" and if this is the case I would deserve every bit of hurt my significant other posed upon me if he were to have a current side chick simply because of my past. This is why I asked the questions above. So lets get raw and honest about securing love and trust after your days of being a committed side chick are over.