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Post by sinceremr718 on Sept 6, 2015 14:04:38 GMT -8
Ladies & Gents. If you truly loved your significant other, whats the time limit you'd stick it out before looking to date someone else. Does being engaged, married, or having children play a factor in your decision? And do you think its okay to have sex with someone else until your loved one comes home? Im interested in your thoughts. #sincerefitness Attachments:
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Post by awakewhileusleep on Sept 7, 2015 15:05:22 GMT -8
i dont think it would be cool to have sex with someone else unless its been talked over and there is understanding, personally if i had extensive time to sit, i would be torn but probably would give my spouse a hall pass. on the other hand, if she was locked away i dont think i could see myself with anyone sexually even if i was given a pass.. through thick and thin, she has had my back in every sense of the word.
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Post by rayjefury on Sept 10, 2015 6:51:22 GMT -8
Ladies & Gents. If you truly loved your significant other, whats the time limit you'd stick it out before looking to date someone else. Does being engaged, married, or having children play a factor in your decision? And do you think its okay to have sex with someone else until your loved one comes home? Im interested in your thoughts. #sincerefitness In the unlikely event that I got knocked and got a serious bid, I'd probably just do "Don't Ask Don't Tell". No reason for her to be incarcerated as well. But at the same time we have a son and I wouldn't want anyone but family mentoring him into manhood. I'd understand if she wanted to make a full break and remarry, but having a child makes it different. If we didn't have a son I wouldn't ask her to troop the bid with me, I'd let her fly. |
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Post by mskenya on Sept 10, 2015 18:39:38 GMT -8
It's hard to say it you aren't actually living that life. We all want to do the right thing but this situation would definitely prove how strong the love is between us. In a perfect world I would want to stick it out especially if we had children. It's a hard pill to swallow but the kids come first. We will do what is necessary til they leave the home.
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Post by justpeachy on Sept 19, 2015 21:07:55 GMT -8
I'd think 5 years is reasonable for me to hold out & wait, preferably 3 or less. It really isn't about the sex but more about that bond & commitment being interrupted. I'm one of those types that there has to be more going on other than sex so safe to say I won't be liking elsewhere while I'm waiting.
Kids being in the mix only makes it more difficult because your the sole person doing everything without support and you have to factor in if the child will go on visits but my limits remain the same.
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