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Post by Johaan on Oct 13, 2015 16:25:21 GMT -8
I have had more affairs then I can count. I love my wife but I won't stop cheating. My problem is this. She refuses to lose weight she just sits there all friggin day stuffing her face, she has this weird smell I just can't get passed. Don't get me wrong it's not the weight that bothers me , it's what the weight represents, laziness, I can't stand it. She never does anything sexy an she hardly gives me head. Meanwhile I'm expected to eat her every 5 minutes. She must be losing her mind. Meanwhile women walk around in these littles ass dresses batting the pretty little eyes at me wanting my attention. So I give it to them. It's easy to say . If you aren't happy you should leave blah blah. But the truth is I love her an I guess I'm just waiting for her to get it together. I suppose I could be labeled as a piece of Shit, but oh well.
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Post by akanundrum on Oct 13, 2015 16:35:44 GMT -8
What do you think is at the source of her eating like this? Do you think she may be caught in a cycle; she doesn't feel attractive so she eats, and she eats which makes her unattractive. Women are very sensitive to vibes. The way you feel about her will come out in your touch, in the way you DON'T look at her anymore, etc.
How big is she? I'm not really huge on surgery but sometimes people feel they are so far gone it gets depressing to even try. She might need a reset
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Post by here4lyfe on Oct 13, 2015 17:08:18 GMT -8
Was she always overweight? If not, then she probably knows you're cheating or something is not the same between you two. Women have a sixth sense, trust me she knows you're sleeping around. She may be eating because that is all she can control, since she can't stop you from sleeping around. I am not blaming you entirely, but you can see how this can be a cycle. Also, her eating could bbe her way of punishing you for cheating..
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thickyfitt01
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Post by thickyfitt01 on Oct 14, 2015 3:29:58 GMT -8
Just freaking leave then! You clearly don't love or respect her because if you did you wouldn't be cheating. You would be finding answers to the problem.
As a husband, you should have your wife's best interest at heart, but you don't. Cheating is a punk move. I don't care what the reason is. You either figure out why your wife is using food to comfort herself in a way that doesn't belittle her/make her feel bad about the damage she's doing to herself OR you divorce her and live your life as single man that is free to put his penis inside of as many people as he'd like.
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