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Post by Selfish Chick on Oct 15, 2015 20:02:04 GMT -8
Hello!
I have been emotionally involved with a man for over a year (no physical involvement at all). We started as friends and the connection is so strong, it has become way more than a friendship. A few months ago, he started dating someone and I can't just see myself being just his friend. I don't think we can undo the emotional connection we have. I have tried to distance myself or occupy my mind with others but I am totally attached to this man. Last week, I told him there were things I needed from him. A list of demands...honesty, time, sex etc. He has basically agreed. I have realized that I have just volunteered to be the side chick/other woman officially. I know for months, I probably have already been playing this role emotionally but I just gave him the green light for the cookies as well. I never saw myself in this position but I honestly cannot imagine life without him. Is there anything that I can do to not become his "other"?
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Post by Rehab101 on Oct 18, 2015 19:38:15 GMT -8
You are actually just outside of the danger zone...you're warm but not quite hot yet
Do yourself a favor and think about how he "sees" you. Bc if he felt the same way for u he wouldn't have you and his girl...he knows that u are emotionally attached to him and he WILL absolutely use that every step of the way to get everything he wants and when he gets tired of u he will leave u high and dry.
I promise you if you told his gf about y alls "sitatution" his attitude towards u will change immediately
I'm not sure how old u are but if you are young do NOT waste your time on this man when you could be doing u..focusing on your goals and finding a man that loves u "correctly" a man that would Never want u to play a side role...bc any man that has a woman on the side has no respect for her or the woman that he's with
Kick this guy to the curve before u get physical. Do NOT let him take control of your mind body and spirite. You are NOT an option So please sista walk away
And if he asks u to stay...says he cares about u ..it's only "words" to make sure he's able to use u.
I'm telling u thru experience...don't let this become a bad memory u wish u could erase
-Rehab 101
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