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Post by freewil504 on Mar 3, 2016 19:22:31 GMT -8
I've been in several open relationships. And the reason for their ending was never trust or another person taking time or importance over either of us. Lately I've been delving into and researching polygamy. It seems to be a path calling. Just wanted to put this topic out there and see if anyone lives that lifestyle and we can create a dialogue and discuss ideas.
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Post by keeshacooper on Mar 10, 2016 17:42:58 GMT -8
I actually just created a thread asking people what were their views on polygamy. I am actually in a polygynous relationship. When it comes to polygamy, you have to make sure that you're wives don't have a monogamous mindset. You'd be surprised how many women will tell you that they're all for polygamy, and then once it's time to bring a new wife into the equation things change. Also, you have to make sure that you are not doing it just to please your lower self. It takes a lot of work, and you have to be a strong man in order to have multiple women respect you and submit at the same time. Many people think that polygyny is for the man to feed his sexual desires, but it's really for the women. Polygyny is really all about the sisterhood. It is also beneficial economically. You can all come together collectively and save money to start businesses or whatnot. It also enables you to homeschool your children if you have any. I could go on and on about the matter, but it is imperative that you and the women involved are doing it for all of the right reasons.
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Post by freewil504 on Mar 10, 2016 21:32:05 GMT -8
Thank you. I agree with everything you said. Coming from open relationships, I know how to communicate that I'm not looking for monogamy. Many women react very hostile towards this. And that's fine. I've learned that the reaction is from cognitive dissonance, and they feel they are being disrespected. Even just by me stating what I'm looking for in a relationship. I feel open relationships, and most likely poly ones also, are way more honest. I don't have to hide my attraction to another woman. I don't have to hide my contact with another woman. I can leave my phone with my woman, with no password, for hours. She knows everything. I feel with polygamy, my woman, or women, can have that feminine touch (mentally and physically) that I can not provide. As well as another person to just enjoy being around. Like 3 best friends.
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