kesco
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Post by kesco on Sept 6, 2015 13:55:14 GMT -8
You are dating your new partner. Everything is perfect. You laugh together. The communication is strong. They treat you like royalty. However, when the two of you finally decide to get intimate....you are left unsatisfied. You make several more attempts over the next few dates with the same result. What do you do? Can you handle having the man/woman of your dreams be perfect in every way but terrible in bed?
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Post by akanundrum on Sept 7, 2015 0:25:57 GMT -8
You are dating your new partner. Everything is perfect. You laugh together. The communication is strong. They treat you like royalty. However, when the two of you finally decide to get intimate....you are left unsatisfied. You make several more attempts over the next few dates with the same result. What do you do? Can you handle having the man/woman of your dreams be perfect in every way but terrible in bed? If it's something that can't be fixed like an EXTRA curved dick...it;s over. If it's a matter of misunderstading; his last girl liked to be beast fucked - I'd be willing to teach him ONLY if all those things listed we in place. |
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kesco
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Post by kesco on Sept 7, 2015 10:26:29 GMT -8
Agreed. In my opinion it takes three things, communication,education,and checking the ego at the door.
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Post by ajashavon on Sept 7, 2015 16:06:27 GMT -8
I think some things may not be totally lined up with both parties if the sex is less than. Both should be willing to learn and to accommodate each other. Communication is essential in any relationship, but communication about sexual needs and preferences is waaaaayyy essential.
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alikakaluwa
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Most beautiful forgotten one
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Post by alikakaluwa on Sept 8, 2015 22:02:15 GMT -8
Some things can be taught, some cannot...I think sex is important so if it's not getting better after talking through what I want and need, I may have to leave...I would try everything before I called it quits though!
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Post by mskenya on Sept 10, 2015 18:52:34 GMT -8
I've handled it before.
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Post by lexxrey on Sept 10, 2015 22:27:25 GMT -8
Depends on the type of incompatibility. Clumsy, and inexperienced.. maybe. Selfish lovers, no.
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Post by akanundrum on Sept 11, 2015 18:05:19 GMT -8
lexxrey clumsy love made me crack the hell up  ?
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Post by morallady on Sept 14, 2015 18:51:53 GMT -8
At my age now it wouldn't be a deal breaker since there are many options to get the job done if left unfinished. Communication is definitely key and working together and compromising on both end to try to do what's needed to get the performance each would like, but if all else fails and the partner is everything else, pick a lube an accessory and make it work!
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Post by ladytee on Sept 14, 2015 20:51:06 GMT -8
Great chemistry + bad sex = friend zone jk...well kinda...somethings can be worked on,motion and positions...others like "equipment" and stamina are a little harder to work around...
lmao lexxrey!!! Clumsy!? I think that's me =/
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Post by lexxrey on Sept 15, 2015 8:59:44 GMT -8
For clarification when I say "clumsy" I mean sex that feels like something from a first time high school experience lol. When he thinks he's gittin it but you've had better transvaginal ultrasounds. When he's fondling you and he's no where near the money spot. Oh lawd, or someone who asks you if you came yet after like 5 mins of weak ass work. Boyyy bye! On 2nd thought, never mind I'm not workin with clumsy either lol. ladytee |
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Post by ladytee on Sept 15, 2015 9:08:09 GMT -8
Lmao lexxrey ok well now that you have elaborated, I don't quite fit into that one...im more clumsy like I have fallen off the bed or out of a handstand type of deal...ctfu at transvaginal ultrasounds!!! |
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Post by lexxrey on Sept 15, 2015 9:10:02 GMT -8
Out of a handstand though!!! Lmao ladytee That's my girl! |
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Post by justpeachy on Sept 15, 2015 19:24:56 GMT -8
I have to agree with all the rest of the ladies. We can try to get it right....
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Post by konsciousMind on Sept 16, 2015 17:54:29 GMT -8
There has to be willingness from both parties to work together and learn each other needs. Communication is the key instead of running.
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