kesco
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Searching for my muse
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Post by kesco on Sept 14, 2015 18:43:27 GMT -8
Where do you go to meet new people? Some people go to the club. Some go to a festival or park. Some go to church. Some rely on social media. Some stay at home and hope for the best. Can you truly find wifey if you only go to strip clubs? Can Mr. Right only be found in isle 3 of the grocery store?
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thickyfitt01
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Post by thickyfitt01 on Sept 15, 2015 1:15:33 GMT -8
LMAO stay at home and wish for the best is me alllll the way!!!!
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Post by akanundrum on Sept 15, 2015 6:15:14 GMT -8
This just gave me a good idea for a post. And I'm with her above LOL!!!
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Post by santerio on Sept 15, 2015 14:21:01 GMT -8
Isle 3 is the best place to be honest. If you meet a man or woman alone in isle 3, which is most likely the frozen pizza and ice cream isle, good chance their single and you can have a netflix and digiorno date already mapped out.
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ShyaDee
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Post by ShyaDee on Sept 15, 2015 18:23:29 GMT -8
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kesco
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Searching for my muse
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Relationship: Single Not Looking
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Post by kesco on Sept 15, 2015 21:06:15 GMT -8
Is it fair to say that we can't find a man/woman if we never really go out anywhere? Or if we only go to the same place over and over again only to complain that the type of people that are there are not your type? I've been guilty of this on many occasions. But i jad to come to terms with the fact that the next wifey isn't gonna knock on my door. I may meet her at the strip club, but its probobly much more likely at a poetry slam or a live jazz concert.
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carl
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Post by carl on Sept 15, 2015 21:26:54 GMT -8
I'm struggling with this issue right now. I really don't want to meet a women in the club, because what will you build on. I met many nice women, real thinkers in college. Some even during high school years. My father told me growing up that' school was the only place you could meet someone that gets attracted to your true essence. He is not conscious to I'm paraphrasing lol. But I think it's true. Two young adults meeting in a school setting is free and it has nothin to much to do with social status. Therefore someone can more genuinely like you for you. It may sound crazy but I use to ask myself which is better a woman who really loves u, one who you must argue with must work thru things with must learn to love. Or a woman who jus like you for your possessions that will do anything to make u happy to get wat they want out of the situations. For a young adult to even have that though is crazy but that's what happens to the black mind in this society it wanders so many ways because of the madness it has to adapt to. I feel as though now I jus want a conscious woman. I tried to be a teacher to a partner and it doesn't work at all u can't make someone get into meditation and began to unlearn things that badge been pushed on them since birth. You must find a equal a conscious woman will complete me and I don't know where on earth there are especially not in Alabama lol but my eyes are open
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Post by amirinyahya on Sept 15, 2015 22:52:13 GMT -8
Lmao! We met in front of Popeyes so you just neeeeva know!
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Post by amirinyahya on Sept 15, 2015 22:54:53 GMT -8
Become what you seek and what you seek will find you... Wherever u are really- cuz people meet in the strangest places an the strangest ways ❤️
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thickyfitt01
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Post by thickyfitt01 on Sept 16, 2015 2:10:01 GMT -8
LMAO you are too silly ShyaDee! Even though it would be nice to have someone right now, I know I'm not ready so that's why I stay in the house. Like amirinyahya said I'm working on becoming the person I would want to be with. I think it's very important to be in love with myself before I give alllllllllll this good lovin to someone else lol. |
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ShyaDee
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Post by ShyaDee on Sept 16, 2015 10:58:55 GMT -8
I meet people all the time. I work & go home. So I'm normally meeting someone at either job or at some random location in between. I go out but I'm quiet. I observe mostly. I listen to what people say. & watch what they do. I've gone to the club & other places but again I was there observing or just out to get my mind off the recklessness that keeps taking place in this world. . . . kesco I think it fair to say that. But I also agree with thickyfitt01 about making sure I'm getting myself together in the process of meeting / finding someone. Shoot I agree w carl too! Some things you can't teach people that aren't open to it. Nor would I want to encounter someone who wants me for my possessions or my physical only. Physically attracting someone is easy. Too easy. Holding my mind is the hard part. Next guy I meet could be in my neighborhood lol. Who knows |
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Post by miamikelli on Sept 20, 2015 14:00:48 GMT -8
That's a great question......for me it's hard to meet a good man. Especially living in a city like Miami where people tend to be superficial and party all the time, there's a lot of distractions. I try not to focus on trying to meet the right guy, I believe he'll come to me at the right time  |
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goldinmyblack
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Construction Professional In NYC.
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Post by goldinmyblack on Sept 21, 2015 11:07:34 GMT -8
I had to sit back and ask myself this question. I realized that I have my best connections while commuting to and from work.
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Post by jazznicole on Sept 21, 2015 15:25:21 GMT -8
I'm also guilty if staying in the house & wishing for the best. Lol!
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Post by mskenya on Sept 21, 2015 15:44:25 GMT -8
Become what you seek and what you seek will find you... Wherever u are really- cuz people meet in the strangest places an the strangest ways ❤️ All this truth, Lawd |
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